Beautiful and charming women need to acquire a special skill, the ability to correctly accept compliments. Accepting compliments is, if you like, a real talent, not given to many, but it can be learned. Most women are deprived of this skill, and subconsciously or not, they reject and refute compliments.
How to accept compliments
It is not right. Believe in your attractiveness and learn to accept praise.
Do not try to convince the person who made you a pleasant remark. If, in response to the praise of your haircut, you start arguing with your interlocutor, you risk offending the person. Learn to just sincerely thank for kind words, because you need to respond to kindness with kindness.
Be kind to the person who complimented you, because he most likely stepped over his embarrassment for you, plucked up courage before coming up and speaking out. Such a nice and considerate person does not deserve your harsh and inappropriate reaction, do not deny compliments, just accept them. Feel free to politely thank for the kind words.
Thanking, no need to add a return compliment. That is, if your dress is praised, you do not need to say: “You also have an elegant shirt.”. Such a feigned tone can offend, and certainly will not make a pleasant interlocutor. It’s better to pay a compliment another time, the next time you meet, it will be more acceptable.
A woman must necessarily believe in the spoken words of praise. People with low self-esteem have a harder time learning to accept compliments. But you can handle. Believe that you can please someone because of your personality, or amaze the imagination with your bright appearance. It’s really like that. They say: “There is no comrade for taste and color”. This means that even if you don’t like something about yourself, this does not call into question the admiration of another person for you. You can really please and encourage someone to say kind, pleasant words.
Praise is definitely a speech that can give you pleasure. After all, in every person there is a little pride, even in a person with low self-esteem.
How to accept compliments
A compliment is a gift. And it is not customary to refuse gifts, remember this. Gifts should be accepted with gratitude. And then any person will want to give you a compliment again and again.
