You finally met someone you are happy with.
How to introduce a guy to his parents
And so your relationship came to introducing him to your parents. For you, this event is no less exciting than for your young man. And of course you want everything to be perfect.
Before dating
There is no need to rush in this matter. You may have been together for a few weeks, but you’re so in love that you think it’s time to introduce him to your parents. But there’s no need to rush. It is better to check your relationship, and postpone meeting your parents for a while.
It is important to listen not only to yourself, but also to the opinion of your young man. Talk to him about it. Maybe he’s not ready for it yet. After all, meeting your parents is an exciting and serious step. There are many reasons why he might not be ready.
In addition to you and your loved one, there are also your parents. And their opinion should also be asked. At first, just say that you have a man. Then tell your parents something about him. And after a few weeks already talking about what you would like them to get to know each other.
How to introduce a guy to his parents
During dating
So, you talked to your parents and your boyfriend and found out that no one is against it. You organized an acquaintance, brought your man and everything seems to be fine. But don’t relax. There are several rules of what to do already at the very meeting of the parents and the guy.
Try to do without pre-prepared topics for conversation, speeches and phrases. They can cause awkward pauses in conversation. In addition, the whole conversation will look rather artificial. Just let it all go and relax.
Try to be ready for anything. Who better than you to know your parents. You can roughly know what they will be interested in and what questions they will approximately ask. After all, even if at first they are kind, then by the middle of the conversation questions and perhaps even discontent will begin. They can appear in an open or latent form. So get ready for it.
Preparing a guy for dating
Your young man also needs to be prepared for a meeting with your parents. In any case, parents will ask a lot of questions that your boyfriend should be ready for. The most common questions about family and parents, about studying and about your time together. A story about the family will help parents understand the atmosphere in the family of a young person. The story of study will make them know how serious a person is in front of them. The fact is that the guy should show parents that he has goals in life, and he seeks to achieve them. It is better not to mention questions about your joint leisure that you spend a lot of time alone (it doesn’t matter whether it is or not).
How to introduce a guy to your parents correctly
Better say that you go to the cinema, theater or just walk. The main thing is to make it clear that you are visiting those places where you are not left alone. In the first meeting, when parents still know the guy poorly, they do not trust him to better not hint at sexual subtexts. Your parents are unlikely to like it.
No matter how the result of the acquaintance does not need to be too happy or be upset about this. If your parents liked your young man, of course, good. But they still know him well, which means they do not trust him. And if you don’t like the guy, you don’t have to be very upset. After all, it is your choice and you meet and live with him, and not your parents. Remember that this was their first meeting, and they still don’t know each other well. So, the opinion of your parents about your man may change when they get to know him more. At the same time, opinion can change both for the better and for the worse.
